The principal at one of our schools, Erica Gilbert, wrote a wonderful letter to her parents this week about making your children your Valentine. All of her ideas are free and can easily be reconciled with being a frugal family. We are pleased to pass along her wisdom and caring to our readers. Here is her letter:

In the month of February, retailers ensure that we are reminded it is Valentine’s Day. I encourage you to save your money and start family traditions that make your child(ren) your valentine. Most parents would not deny that their child(ren) is the “love of their life”! I know my boys are mine. Here are some “top 5 ideas” for making your child(ren) your valentine this year:

1. Say, “I love you” to children of all ages! It is an important thing to hear and say to those you care about.

2. Schedule one-on-one time with your child(ren). How special s/he will feel when you make a date with them. Even if its just to run some errands. Take that alone time and make it special time!

3. Build your Child(ren)’s self esteem using positive words. Use plenty of positive words with your child. Catch them when they are doing something you like.

4. Schedule Family Time – Plan a game night or a special dinner. Get everyone in the household involved in the planning and preparing of the activity.

5. Do “Random acts of Kindness” with your child(ren), i.e. Bring cookies to a nursing home, pet food to an animal shelter, homemade cards to the hospital. Have your child think of something to do that fits your family.

There is nothing more precious than knowing you are loved and appreciated. It doesn’t cost a thing, but a bit of time. Take this month to connect with your child(ren). It will pay off ten fold.

Have a wonderful time.

Warmly,
Erica Gilbert
Principal, Gardner Bullis Elementary

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